this is a wishing well...guess wat wish we made??hehe
dar really like to take this piggy home haha
dar really like to take this piggy home haha
dun they look alike??
dar feedin the goat
me feedin the goats..they are really cute and eat every leaf u feed them!!
naughty monkey doing something bad..oopz..
my dar's new friends..Lucy, Roni and Growie...they look at my dar when she call them!!
the extreme smelly zebra!!!! yuckz!! no wonder we holding our nose..hehe
naughty dar sticking her tongue out!!
this bull is staring at my dar cos shes wearin red!!! she held on to me tighty :p
isnt my dar the sweetiest gal?? at least @ zoo today i confirmed shes the prettiest!!
shes wondering why he look familiar...hehe
happiest couple @ zoo today!!
we are the 1st 2 to wait for the feeding of sealion!!
cant had enough of her hug!!
i really not fat and have no belly!!
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How long have i been searching for a watch le?haha..kinda like too stingy to myself so din managed to make the move to buy them..haha..Really like the designs from fossil and cant even chose the one i really like. but here come this wonderful gal who got me wat i had in mind. amazing right? maybe becoz we had the same birthday? and i realise today tat we actually squeezed out from our mum at abt the same time olso leh!!This is a very special gift for me from my super loving dar..cos she was "dry" after this purchase.. really touched leh.. muack muack!! can improve on the wrappin but i dun mind lah..haha
Our 5th month together this coming tues and we are goin to spend the whole day together!! yeah!! always love the company of my dar.hehe..Prayin hard it will not rain on tat day cos we are goin to the zoo..really lookin forwards to this trip..
Know shes gonna to make some tough decision recently but no worries cos i will be by her side supportin her in watever path she chose.
Love u always and Forever!!dar kaidi
muack muack muack muack muack!!!
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Its Now The World Cup Craze Period... I Used 2 Say Its Stupid N Lame 2 Sit In Front Of The Tv For 2 Hrs Watch 10 Over Guys Chasing Over A Ball... But I Nv Ever Imagine Myself Sitting Down N Watch.. Worse Thing Is While Watching, I Make Alot Of Noise Commenting On The Footballers Skill.. Haha.. Hw Ironic..
Dar.. Can Tell U, U R Beri Fortunate Oh..U Got The Chance 2 Hug Mi N Watch Soccer Together Leh.. Lucky U..
Anyway.. I Need 2 Make Another Big Step In My Life.. I Need Some Advise N Support Here..
I'm Gg 2 Quit My Job Soon For The Reason Tt I've Been In This Job 4 Almost 2 Yrs N Getting Sick Of It.. So I Was Thinking Of Changing Job..
So This Lightbulb Came Up N I Tot Of Being An Insurance Adviser..
Wat Do Ya Tink?
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Shes still cute and pretty lah...really!!
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Hmmm.. supposed to go ktv today with my dar and her bro.. but due to some reasons we din go and my dar know wats it right? (really not my fault leh) :p hope her bro will not be too disappointed cos i will make it up for him soon de.. hehe..
Dar help me pluck my beard again today even thu shes not feelin well..but not i bully her..shes really njoy it one..haha cant denied im abit hairy lah..haha..she love to pluck my endless hairs from my arms, legs and just now face..haha
Well, my boss's boss merry riana (http://www.merryriana.com.sg/) taught me something abt "dream book" which is actually a sketch book which we will paste pics, draw and write abt our dreams. I really tot this is a good ideas to share and work towards our goal with my dar. So we went to buy a sketch book already!! Cant wait to start on it when my dar is free.. (but she seldom free leh) :( So wats actually this book is abt? Well merry told me tat dream book has special mircales which alots of her dreams came true now which may sound impossible when she 1st pasted them in the book. Hmmm.. no matter whether its true anot i jus wanna to understand and share dreams with my dar so no harm tryin..hehe
As for the understandin email is something i had came out with one leh..hehe..so to all the couple around im here to share a great way to hav better understandin between both of u!! Well 1st we will setup an email acc together. This email only be read and send by 2 of us to each other. We will write all the small small issues abt the feelin or things tat u hate or like abt each other. let say " dar i really wish u can be sweeter to me" ...hehe here example only har..my dar is super sweet one hor. And of cos stuff like " i dun like the way u talk loudly to me". This mails are meant to be shared and create understandin so rulez must be followed like things written here doesnt need reply or answer. Becoz this mails is to create a better understandin between both of us and there will be stuff thats too minor or jus diff to say. But all these small small stuffs can really chunked up over long period cos relationship is meant to be long and forever right? So small efforts here makes a different in our relationship. If ur relationship doesnt worth this small efforts from ur partner i really thinks he or she doesnt worth ur times on he or her..haha (hope this sentence wont breakup anyone :p)
Love always,
Dar kaidi
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Wow... Its Been A Long Time Since I Blog Huh? I Admit Im Lazy Haha.. So Here Is An Update Of My Life Recently.. Refer 2 The Photos Below N U Shall Noe Haha
The Staff Outing That I Organise Went Quite Well.. We Got A Big Chalet @ Changi, We BBQ, Eat, Watch Tv,
Took Lots Of Photos.. Some Of Them R Still Wif My Frens N We Play Games Til 4.30a,m Then We Went 2 Slp.. Some Of Them Even Continue Playing Mahjong..
Dar Came 2 Fetch Me The Next Morning N I Continue Slping 1 Whole Day.. Haha.. Wat A Pig I Was..
Recently Also Spend A Lot.. Start 2 Love Tis Online Shopping Habit..Spend Quite A Bit Online On Clothes N The Quality N Design R Excellent!! Haiz..Dar Is Stopping Mi Frm Shoppin Now.. :(
But I Manage 2 Bought a Poka Dot Skirt Frm Mosphosis B4 He Stops Mi.. Haha.. Smart Rite?
Last Nite I Do Haf A Beri Strange Dream.. I Dreamt Of My Grandma..
The Scenario Was She Was Still Alive N Ask Mi If I Would B Sad If She Pass Away, I Reassure Her Tt She ll Live 2 Long Age N Guess Wat She Says?
She Ask If Its Ok If She Bring Mi Along Wif Her After She Dies.. Tt Is 2 Join Her In The Other World..
It Freaks Mi Out When I Wake Up.. I Noe She Loves Mi N Wans Mi 2 Accompany Her.. It Was Onli Then Tt I Realise I Was Afraid 2 Die...
Do I Wanna Die So Young? N Leave My Dar Here? I Haben Lived My Life.. I Still Wanna Get Married N Go 2 Lots Of Country...
I Told Dar Abt It N He Wans Mi 2 Bring Him Along 2 If I Die..
Wat Does The Dreams Tells Mi? M I gg 2 Die Soon??
Frankly Speaking,, I'm Scare..
But Still, I Love My Grandma..
May She Rest In Peace..
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look @ the details of his shirt..hehe... er xin hor?
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Tis is dar's shirt... he is a 'ti go uncle'
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My new shoe!! bought @ bangkok de..nice ma?
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This bunch of gers love taking photos
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Having fun..
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PTO staffs @ chalet~~!!
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Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a set of techniques, postulates and beliefs that adherents use primarily as an approach to psychotherapy, healing, communication (both verbal and non-verbal) and personal development. NLP was developed from around 1973, initially by Richard Bandler and Associate Professor of Linguistics John Grinder, as a set of models and principles to describe the relationship between mind (neuro) and language (linguistic) and how their interaction might be organized (programming) to affect an individual's mind, body and behavior. NLP focused on areas such as behavior change, transforming beliefs, and treatment of traumas through techniques such as reframing and "meta modeling" proposed for exploring the personal limits of belief as expressed in language.
Ethical concerns of NLP�s encouragement towards manipulation have been raised. As such, NLP is seen as encouraging people to find more ways to manipulate individuals against their will within seduction, sales and business settings. The therapy and coaching fields require an ethical code of conduct (eg: Psychotherapy and Counseling Federation of Australia Ethical Guidelines) however it has been found that NLP certified practitioners often show a weak grasp of ethics.
So anyone heard abt this above thing called NLP? Jus to explain it in a more simple way its a new technology of using different structure of the sentences we talk to influence and insert ideas and belief to another person subconsciously (meaning without the person even knowing it!!). Its strongly related to hypnosis, jus tat this is less powerful and lesser controlled by laws.
Well so it sounds scary to u? I had seen the power of it with my own eyes and strongly believe in it but i had questions of those people who had mastered this art. Jus let ur imagination run abit wild and u will know how bad it can get!! eg. The master slapped u, den make u believe u deserved to be slapped? The master took all ur money and make u believe u owed him?
Things may not be this ways of cos as i believed NLP can help in personal improvement and more in Sales techinque. By the way my dear Ivy and i are basic NLP trained. haha..and now she even wanna to go for the Master NLP Course. But thing isnt so simple. I was strongly against her of goin to tat cse and she is very keen on it :( We are still discussing abt it, mayb abit of arging goin on as well. But my main issue is becos of her BOSS (the hairy hand and leg old man). He is the trainer of this cse. And given the fact tat hes a master of this art and i had question of his creditabilty, why shld we pay $1300 for my dar to expose to this danger? I really in a very diffcult position now cos im the one who most doted on my dar but i had to be the one stoppin her from goin to the cse which she really wanna to go. Its hurts me alot more than anyone can understand. Lets hope everythin gonna be alright, for wat i really cared abt is my dar.
Love always,
sad dar kaidi
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Finally my dar brought her samsung phone to repair le..and she managed to collect it today..hehe this mean i can get back my N70 which she borrow from me the last few days..Her samsung phone was quite a frustrating to me lor..cos u might need to call her a few times before she get the calls or msg and all our long hours sweet talk is cut out few times durin it..quite annoyin hor?Lets hope everything is fine now if not she will ask me to buy N70 for her le :p
1 thing i really dun understand is the Uzap..why my dar love it so so much??hmmm...maybe i shldnt talk abt this cos quite sensitive..haha..but i do hope it works cos i using it olso..haha..
dar had not been in good health recently..kept complainin abt stomach pain den eye pain or knee pain..den olso at work kept got paper cut on her hand..heart pain for me leh..ask her wear gloves le but she dunwan..hehe..
Love always,
dar kaidi
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